The Ex Files Or How To REALLY Live Your Dreams..

We’re going on a trip in the way back machine today! Fasten your seatbelts and refrain from smoking whilst we prepare for Blast Off.. Sit back comfortably but don’t go to sleep because, well, things can happen in dreams and real life simultaneously. You didn’t know that? Get yourself some caffeine and I’ll explain. Farquhar … Continue reading The Ex Files Or How To REALLY Live Your Dreams..

Why Do We Need To Let Other People Own Their Feelings?

This isn’t my work – I’m reblogging this post from another blogger because I find it so relatable and I know a lot of you are going to read this nodding your heads in agreement too.

Julie de Rohan

You’re about to send an email and you’re re-reading it for the tenth time to make absolutely sure there’s nothing in it that could be misconstrued and cause offence.   Then you check it another ten times after you’ve sent it – just in case…

You bump into a friend in the street.  As you walk away, you replay the conversation over and over in your head trying to work out if you said anything “wrong”.  You’re still rerunning the conversation in your head as you lie in bed that night…

A work colleague seems a bit off with you.  You instantly rack your brain to recall your most recent interactions with them.  You spend the day desperately trying to work out what you did to upset them so you can apologise and make things right…

Sound familiar?

On the whole, people with emotion-driven overeating issues are a sensitive bunch.  We…

View original post 749 more words

The Lunatics are Taking Over The Asylum..

Happy Thursday! It’s a beautiful day here in upstate NY. I think a spot of vitamin D therapy is on the cards for this afternoon. Here is today’s throwback offering to my time in prison! All will be explained!

Bitchin’ in the Kitchen

Many years ago, when I was still living in England, I worked for Her Majesty’s Prison Service. I was a clerical officer and dealt with a wide range of services from Throughcare, Prisoners wages and Education to my main role which was Discipline.

Yes I was a Discipline Administrative Officer in an all male prison! That’s a hell of a job title to live down I’m telling you! We had a lot of fun though. I’d get calls all day long from various police forces checking release dates and court dates etc. You quickly learn who the biggest perverts in society are too! It’s policemen! If I had a £ for every time one has said “Discipline huh? Is this Miss Whiplash?” Well – let’s just say Elon Musk would be shining my shoes!!

It grew to be quite a Competition, who could make who uncomfortable first. I shared a…

View original post 469 more words